- Ladies and gents, when you are going through hard times please let the other party in the relationship, who knows they did something wrong and is trying to fix it, know that you appreciate what they are doing. You have to let them know that you recognize their hard work. I know sometimes it is hard to do because you don't want to show some many emotions early because you don't want that person to think what they did was ok, but it is good to let them know you appreciate it nevertheless. If you don't, they will stop trying and go back to what they were doing or just give up completely.
Now, Guns has been so sweet to me, he's sent me my favorite flowers/plant (above right) and he's even sent me to the spa. Please don't get me wrong, these material things aren't making our marriage work but the fact that he put thought and effort into everything that he as done is what I care about. He sent my a letter the other day from Iraq and he had a poem written in it....he's never NEVER done anything like that before. He told me it took him hours to put everything into the poem to let me know how he feels about me. Call me gullible if you want, but things like that is what gets me. The things money cannot buy, the things that takes thought and time (PERSONAL TIME) is watch shows me that I'm worth everything to him.
So I love Guns for doing what he is doing, this still doesn't taking him off the hook of going to counseling or anything else that was presented to help make the relationship work. But it does help me with trying to trust him again. But we are working on and we are doing our best to keep this marriage going because we love each other and we know that we are going to make it through all of this.
Until then,
Kisses xoxo
