Why do men think women are so stupid??? Can anyone answer that question for me please!!!! So my "man" for all intents and purpose we will call him Guns, not like the weapon but more like his built, really thinks I'm one of those naive little girls. Guns went out of state for his job and left his cell phone with me and put a lock on it so I wouldn't go through it. But dumb ASS fail to put a code that I wouldn't find out, I mean come on my B-DAY!!!
*Here's the back story I've been with Guns for awhile and we are very very much tied together but he has this fetish that I found out about and he tries to hide it. Now I know I should of left a long time ago but it's something I'm working on. This is why I am creating this blog.
**Another side note: This is my first entry and I go by Pink LipstiQue, you can call me Pink for short. I want to write about my life and the sh** I put up with, without giving anything away, this can turn into a venting column or an advice blog or one of those "girl let me tell you" things. I don't know yet but I'm working on it.
So back to me and Guns...He's one of those dudes who will use you name or birthday or a tattoo as his password for something. YES I SNOOP. You have to sometimes, men are very sneaky but they are so dumb with it. They are more likely to get caught before a women does because we are very smart. I make sure I check email, facebook, myspace, text messages, IMs...you name it, I've checked it. Ladies please don't feel bad if you do, there is a reason for you going through his stuff. I always say "If I have second guess you, then I have to check you" simple as that. You want to know what's going on with your relationship and sometimes you have to go through extreme measures to get to it. So anyways, he left his phone here with my birthday as the password...put he was one step a head of me, he made sure he deleted any evidence in is inbox and is sent messages...but of course he isn't that smart, voicemail was still available. Ladies VOICEMAIL can be your best friend. She can tell you anything you want to know: call back numbers, date and time some called, and who it's from. Oh how I love voicemail...
So after going through about 10 bill collectors messages, I finally heard what I was looking for, "The ex that just won't let go". Now, this chick is really trying to see how much rope she has and I am 10 seconds away from showing her how far she can pull...LADIES VIOLENCE IS NOT THE ANSWER...that's why I haven't beaten her ass yet. I know I am bigger than that but some people just ask for it, sometimes that's all you can do. So this chick left a message calling him "baby" and telling him she misses him and when she was done, homegirl said : "I love you"
Now aint that BEACH...hehehe (trying to limit my cussing).
This is the beginning of some of the stories of my life...please stay tune to hear more or just shoot me a email if you want to ask questions...until then
Kisses xoxo
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- Pink LipstiQue is on journey to discover herself and help those she can along the way. This is a blog for any gender and age...I talk about it all.
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ReplyDeleteBoys are like dogs...extremely careless therefore they leave trails of the mess they tend to have...although they believe their being careful. Girls however,are like cats, we are careful and sneaky...never leaving a trail on where we've been.
ReplyDeleteI used to question my dude Taurus on everything he did! All he did was deny it...my word against his. And he's the type to take that word to his grave. He deletes his text messages and refuses to answer certain phone calls around me. Me being the bitch I can be, called him out on it yet because the he deletes everything...my evidence serves as my own insecurities. So i told him that he can do what he feels...I'm done keeping tabs. A few weeks later he noticed I wasnt on him at all about who's calling or texting...as far as he was concerned I was over it. Again...MEN R DUMB!!! Of course I had to let him think that...and since he can tell if I've been on his phone...I had to be 2 steps ahead. THEREFORE I, being me, created an online acct for his phone while he slept. This way, he can't tell if I'm on his phone...but I can still c who calls,texts, the times they do and how long they talk for. Taurus has no idea...I can play dumb since thats what he thinks I am.
Ya, I can relate .... yes I can.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I have told myself that I would not snoop ..... when you set yourself up for pain, you will usually find it.
However, my husband left his phone in my car ... and I broke my rule, and I got hurt ...
Christine, I most admit that I didn't not disclose everything in this blog...Guns is my husband and yeah I did set myself up for pain but stay tune for my next blog and you will see what happens next. Thanx for commenting!!!
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