Question of the Day....Or Night

Why do women tend to go after the bad boys? Why do we always take the cheater's back....now come on, SERIOUSLY???



So I'm home (alone) :( watching The Game....(the alone part explain's why I'm doing that) and Melanie ass is chasing Derwin around like she some kind of a lost puppy. Home girl is so caught up and sprung, it's ASHAME...I mean if you ever seen The Game, then you know he cheated on her and then she decided to go around and sleep with other guys to get over him (which isn't too smart) and then he realizes what he lost...and blah blah blah...YOU GET THE POINT



So he chase her for awhile, which does help a woman's ego, and then she didn't want to give him any time of day, so he stopped....NOW Melanie did a 180 and want's him back...AS IF THE FACT THAT HE CHEATED ON HER ASS just slipped her mind!!!



Now the question(s) I posed above are some serious questions ladies, why do we like the bad boys who break our hearts and chase us around town once they seen that they messed up and once when they stop...WE BECOME THE LOST PUPPies????

It's like, once we see them moving on and giving up hope of ever getting back with us, we lose our minds and try to get back with them. Now they realize that we want them back and their HEADs start to get all big again!!! Don't you see ladies, this is what dudes want us to do. They want us to get jealous and feel like shit because we left them, but we have to beat them at their own games. I know this might seem a little High Schoolish but we have to show these dudes they can't get the best of us. I'm not telling anyone to start whoring around, all I'm saying is...get you a nice cutie for yourself and flaunt him around from time to time...and show your EX what he wish he still had.

We need to drop into his neighborhood sometimes with our hotties and let them see us with our new men...in their nice cars (I know it seems a little materialistic, but it helps) with big smiles on our face. That will set a dude off like fireworks. And once you done that, MISSION ACCOMPLISH!!! That's it, don't go running back to him because he shows up at your place apologizing....unless, UNLESSSSSSS....You truly believe deep down, way way way way way DEEP down in your heart that he does love you and that he is absolutely sorry for what he did, then you can take it slow with him. Don't give him boyfriend privilege with "just friends" status.<----- This is where most women mess up, we rush things. Take your time with the relationship, you know what the sex is like, you already had that with him. Find other ways to get intimate with him...the ball is in your court so he has to play the game the way you want to play it.

If this man is serious about getting back with you and doing better, he will do anything for you...Now ladies please don't abuse this privilege, because all it does is block your blessings and stopping him from being the man he needs to be in your life. Just give him little rules and let him know that you won't put up with his antics. Let him be the MAN in the relationship, just don't forget where you came from and what your goals are.

Until then

Kisses xoxo