Strickly for the Fellas!!!

So fellas, I know you always wonder what women want and how to please them...here are some few tips.

This might come as a shocker, but sometimes we DON'T KNOW what we want. We would like to think that we do or even better, we would like for you guys to guess and then we decided if that's what we really want or not. But I can tell you what women would love for guys to do more in a relationship.

I am speaking for myself when I say this, if any ladies agree or disagree please comment and tell me why you feel that way.


Things we want to see more:

1. If a guy started out buy flowers and gifts before he got with us, we still want the flowers and gifts after you get with us.

• If you're the type of guy that never did that for your girl, you should probably start. It helps us know how special and important we are to you. It shows that you took the time out to think of something yourself

2. When we lay in bed, cuddle with us, try sleeping with your arms around us. We like feeling safe and loved

3. Send random I love you texts, that really get to us. You never know when your girl is down and needs a little " pick me up" and that text can come at the right time.

4. Ask us how are day went and mean it, if you ask, you actually have to care to listen

• This shows us that you care about us and you really want us to be able to tell you anything. It also allow us to vent and let off some steam and we will love you FOREVER

5. Try giving us little massages here and there.

• There is a lot of tension that builds up during the day, whether it is from work, school, or any daily activities.

6. COOK DINNER FOR US. Or at least attempt to, this is the most romantic and sexiest thing I believe a guy can do.

• Coming home to a candle lit dinner and soft music is a thrill for girls...that would but a permanent smile on our face...and it will certainly help with getting laid!!!

7. Take us out on dates

• You don't have to break you pockets at all or spend any money. There are always something that is going on in your community that is free and you both can enjoy together. It's the thought that counts.

8. Remind us how beautiful we are

• Sometimes insecurities can get the best of us, we will drift to the "I'm fat" "I don't feel pretty" or "does he still think I'm pretty" stage. And sometimes we need our men to grab us and look us straight in the eyes and a say "You're beautiful, you know that?"

9. Be spontaneous

• Sometimes spontaneity goes a long way. We don't like to do the same routine day in and day out. We like little changes; as long as it benefits the both of us.

10. Last but not least, tell us how you feel about us so we don't have to guess

• When it comes to emotions, men are like walls. We can't know how you truly feel without you expressing it. It's ok to be the first one to say "I love you"

Until then

Kisses xoxo